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Aug 9, 2014

Toxic Friendship: Let it go or Stay??


hi readers!! do you ever heard about "toxic friendship?" no?? what is toxic friendship? how to recognize a toxic friend? you have one? oh bla bla bla??

Well, a toxic friends always complicate your life. What I can say, these people a more than a nuisance, a parasitic. If you think you ever make your precious time deal with their negativity, and you are left why you feel so despondent; nah!! YOU ARE IN TOXIC FRIENDSHIP!! wake up friends! WAKE UP! *This kind of relationship usually happen to a girl, tehehee..boy? hmm..ada kot tapi minor jek! :P

What toxic friends do.
  • THEY DRAIN YOU.When you spending time with them, you always feel psychologically and emotionally depleted, instead of uplifted. (you can find this on emotional blackmail)
  • THEY ARE UNSUPPORTIVE. When you try to tell them about something good news about you, or any important aspects of your life and they seem uninterested and unsupportive or downright rude about your ideas in the past. oh!! just let them go friends! 
  • THEY ARE UP TO NO GOOD. They give bad influence in your life like, spoiled your life? oh! a good friend will never spoiled other friend life!
  • THEIR VALUE AND INTEREST ARE OPPOSITE TO YOUR OWN. Well, sometime, what can you see at your friends, they're doing wrong but, always blame others (they might be blaming you) for their own-wrong-doing. If that happen, this doesn't necessarily mean the others person is wrong, it just means they aren't right for you. 
  • UNRELIABLE. They always break their promise. oh! come on!
  • THE LIKE A CHIPSMORE. They only contact you when they needed something. otherwise, you never hear from them. (Always happen right?!)
  • THEY ARE NOT MEETING YOU HALFWAY. If you are always the one calling your friend to make plans and going out of your way to be with them, listen to their story (a boyfriend problem, family problem, PMS problem and oh! blablabla etc..all about them! so, you don't have any chance to share your problem/story with them..haaaa, she is the heroin in this story. so, what about you? just a pouch bag? YOU DON'T LIVE YOUR LIFE FOR THEM! REMEMBER THAT!) but then, they never return the favor and attempt to go out of her way for you, hmmm! its not so-called-that-privacy-needed but, there's a problem!
  • THEY ENVY YOU. They might be jealous of you. Jealousy is when; "I want what you have and I want to take it away from you." oh, okay! That's too obvious! haha. usually they'll quietly steal what's belongs to you. and by the time they succeed stealing it from you....oh! now then you realize! too late!
  • THEY HAVE ZERO AMBITION. Beware friends!; a lack of ambition can be contagious. to those who have no ambition, they have no goal in life. if you have no goal in life, what is your life for??! oh! Avoid it!! 
  • THEY CONSTANTLY DRIVE YOU TO MOMENTS OF INSANITY. When you notice/catch yourself daydreaming about how good it would to throw a banana cream pie in their face! hewhewhew~ :P
Alright! now, do you think you have one friend that suits these criteria? or YOU ARE THE ONE SUITS ALL THESE CRITERIA? HAHA! 

Yes! I've a friend who became a victim of this 'toxic friend'. A friend who is only agreed with them (toxic friend) and gave them the spotlight!

I have once experienced that kind of friendship. Its really *heartbreak*. It happen many years ago. lehh! just forget about it! hewhewhew.

The truth is I've also been a terrible friend at time, and I realize this. In the past, I've neglected some friendships by relying on the other person to stay in touch instead of reaching out myself. Some of these friendships withered away overtime because of my toxic behavior. 

*That's make me more appreciate/treasure more in friendships. Oh! remember that toxicity is a two-way-street. You have to be a good friend too! :) 

*Always be a good friend to your friend! Love your friends! *I LOVE MY FRIENDS* :D

Jul 3, 2014

Quote Of The Day - 2

 I always prefer to believe 
the best of everybody, 
it save so much 
trouble "

-Rudyard Kipling-

Jul 2, 2014

My littlest thought about transformers 4: Age of Extinction

Assalamualaikum and hi readers!!

This entry is special about my thought for Transformers 4: Age of Extinction. (this is the 2nd movie that I give it a review after merong mahawangsa *clap clap* haha!)  Well, I'm not a really fan of a Transformer's movies, but yes! I've watched Transformers 1 and 2 but NOT Transformers 3. Guess why? BECAUSE there is no more MEGAN FOX in Transformers 3. Haha! I'm not saying that  I didn't watching transformers 3 because of Rosie Huntington-whiteley but, its just because I like Megan Fox more.. :P

Okay! now its about Transformers 4. ohya! no more Shia LaBeouf , hehe. A bit synopsis for the movie's review. - A mechanic (Mark Wahlberg as Cade Yeager) and his friend Lucas buy an old truck to strip it for parts and sell it to get Cade's daughter, (Nicola Peltz as Tessa), through college. Cade and his daughter  make a discovery that brings down Autobots and Decepticons and a paranoid government official (Kelsey Grammer as Harold Attinger) on them. They soon discovers it is a Transformer by the name of Optimus Prime (voiced by Peter Cullen).

hmm, after watching Transformers 4, I would give this movie 7 out of 10! weee..*clap clap* but, all I can say is, they should bring back Megan Fox (again about Megan Fox! haha) for Transformers 4. I know that she did some bad things but I hope that the Transformers fan just put it behind because she really got talent in her acting. I like Transformers 1 and 2 but not 3 as much. That's why I'm not watching Transformers 3 yet. Some people might think this movie is just an endless (please watch the ending!) barrage of nonsense and noise but for me, I can just put aside the story that filled with nonsense and lack of logic because all that's what caused Transformers a fascinating movie and I like these kind of movie. Lastly, about the family problem in this movie like a father who despises her daughter's boyfriend. well, its just a family cliche that one of the most cheesiest I've witnessed in my life, the whole dialogue and the story is just "click" (do finger click sound.haha) like that. That's why i give it 7 out of 10! So, Happy watching!!!


Jun 26, 2014

I'm Sorry :(

Assalamualaikum and Hi! I just deleted almost all of my previous entry due to some reason. Of course I can't tell you here! haha. Sorry for that! :) I might be rarely to make my blog updated but, I promise its will never get spider nest inside! :) . So, i really hope u`ll never get annoyed with all my entry.


Quote Of The Day - 1

" You have to accept whatever comes and 
the only important thing is that 
you meet it with courage 
and with the best 
that you have 
to give"

-Eleanor Roosevelt-


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